From: Keelin M.
I chose to take this picture because it embodies the way that our society views sex. Women have always been told that they need to be alluring and sexy. If a woman doesn't have sex with a man then she is a tease, but if she does then she is a slut. Men, on the other-hand, can be as aggressive as they want and when they get laid they're the man! From the time we are children we learn our romantic scripts. Our parents, the media, and the people around us whom we observe contribute to this romantic script. When a mother talks to her daughter about sex she tells her that if she sleeps around then she will get a bad reputation, but when a father talks to his son about sex he throws him a pack of condoms and is done with the conversation. It is common that girls will sleep with boys to get a feeling of love and attention. Boys sleep with girls to get another "notch on their belt". The picture is in black and white because it shows that our society is set on having this double standard, that there is no gray area. You are either a a loser because you are a virgin, cool because you sleep with a lot of girls, a prude because you wont have sex with boys, or a slut because you do. I chose to have my friend Hannah positioned lower than the boy so that she would seem less powerful. She also does not look into the camera, but rather at the boy. He ignores her when she stares at him. Her body is turned inward and her arms are crossed across her chest this symbolizes the insecurity that most girls feel when it comes to a romantic relationship. My friend Ricky's body is more centered, and is taking up a large amount of the photograph. His eyes stare directly into the camera, which shows that he is powerful. His arms are behind his head and he is in a relaxed masculine pose. Although both boys and girls take part in sex they get labeled differently, and for girls more negatively. After a girl has sex she will be labeled as a "slut, whore, skank, hoe,etc". She is "tainted", no one wants her anymore, because she has already been with a boy. But when a boy has sex he is "the man" and the more girls he sleeps with the more attractive he seems. Our society poses a complete double standard for males and females. I chose to have a bed that had bars on it, because the bars symbolize that we are trapped inside this double standard. The blanket also has straight lines like bars, and the bracelets on their wrists are like handcuffs. They are labeled with the stereotypical names that they will be called once another person finds out they have had sex. In this society once you are labeled, it is forever.
10 comments:
This is a really well thought out photo! I love the way that the couple have words on their bodies. Society does tend to label girls and boys with certain scripts. I also love the position that the people in the picture are positioned. I thought it was interesting how the male in the photograph was bigger and more centered. To me, this suggests that men have more power in a relationship
There is definitely a double standard when it comes to sex. Guys can go out meet a girl at a bar and if he ends up going home with that girl and having sex with her he’s the man. Now if a girl does the same thing she gets labeled. I have never understood this double standard. It’s completely not fair.
This picture says a lot of things. It completely sums up the gendered stereotypes on sex. It’s a sad stereotype that girls are sluts after they have sex with a guy. If you’re a girl you’re not supposed to enjoy sex is supposed to be something that is just for the guys pleasure, and if we talk about liking it were suddenly were whores. In reality don’t know many girls that’s have that think like that. It’s totally okay for a guy to have a random hook up with tons of different girls and when he does he rewarded for it. If a girl does it she has a “walk of shame” and she’s looked at as a slut. We hate the stereotype, but let’s be honest we have all called each other the same names that guys call us. If we see a girl in school that is open about sex and enjoys it; then she’s easy, when in reality she’s just acting like a guy. We don’t even find it acceptable for girls to do it, if we did we wouldn’t talk about each other the way we do. If we want others to stop talking about us in a negative way, we need to stop talking about ourselves that way. This photo really shows how it is after a girl has sex with a guy. In this photo I see a girl looking at the guy who just had sex with her helplessly, almost like she should regret it because she knows she will be called everything that’s written on her. The guy lies proudly because he knows no one will look down on him for what he just did. The whole world is filled with double standards.
This photo is probably my favorite out of all of them, because it sends the strongest message about one of the most talked about subjects in the world-sex. Everyone does it, but the message it sends out is different for both males and females. Realistically it's not possible for us to judge others on something you yourself do, but it happens anyways. I think this photo perfectly explains the harsh world of the double standard.
I like the fact that you addressed this issue and how your picture strongly portrays how women and men are treated unfairly, although both perform the same actions. This double standard is one of the factors as to why men feel like they have more power and superiority over women because women are easily victimized and labeled over such things.
Very creative and thoughtful photo. It really embodies how the world sees men and women sexuality. As portrayed in teh picture, women are always seem negatively if they like sex or engage in it alot. Whereas men are seen in a positive light if they have a lot of sex and have a lot of girls that like them. This double standard is seen all over the world and effects men and women alike. Men are not looked as manly of they are not sexual and if they dont like to have lots of sex. Women are looked as a tease or lesbian if not fully sexual as people should think. Great photo
This is a great photo everything in it is so true. When girls tend to have sex with guys they get called harsh names. Names they may not approve of. When guys have sex with girls they are look at totally different. They are known to be “the man” they get all the praise like they did something right. It doesn’t make any since to me why this is true because what if girls didn’t have sex with guys so they don’t get called names then the guys will not have sex also so do that make him less of a man?
This was such a creative idea and title for this project. The double standard that exists between males and females in unbelievable, especially at our age. So much of our behavior is based off of the media and our peers, but then these influences turn out to be the same people that crucify us after we fulfill their demands. The line that exists between being sexy but not a slut or classy but not prude is so fine, it is just about impossible to balance on.
This is a perfect picture to represent how society thinks about gender and sex. If women have sex, they called a slut or easy but if a guy has sex then he gets a thums up for it. i dont understand why women have to be a good girl and wait till marrage but men can have sex whenever and where ever. i like how the couple in this picture both have lables because the lables are true. This is a double standared that i do not understand. if men do not have sex then they are not considered manly but it is not right if when do the same thing. The title is perfect for this picture because for women, lables never come off. I love this photo! very well put together.
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