Thursday, October 30, 2014

Pretty Hurts

From: Kaitlyn H.
     In today’s society, women are expected to be perfect. They are expected to have perfect skin, perfect hair, flawless makeup… you name it, it is supposed to be perfect on a woman. Tina Fey explains it perfectly in her book Bossypants. In her book, Fey explains what women like J-Lo and Beyoncé have brought to the table in terms of what women should aspire to look like, saying that a “back porch and thick muscular thighs” are now what is desired by females. Fey goes on to write:
Now every girl is expected to have Caucasian blue eyes, full Spanish lips, a classic button nose, hairless Asian skin with a California tan, a Jamaican dance hall ass, long Swedish legs, small Japanese feet, the abs of a lesbian gym owner, the hips of a nine-year-old boy, the arms of Michelle Obama, and doll tits.”
 All of these expectations are made known to women at young ages (even as young as toddlers via characters such as Cinderella, Anna, and Belle). When they hear or see something, even if it is only one time, they are likely to remember it in the long run. They may not know it yet, but they are at the prime age to be, well, primed. Their minds are so impressionable at that age that they do not know that what society deems as “perfect” is anything but the word. This is why the “model” in the picture is a young girl. At her age, she has already expressed how she wants to be like Barbie; hence the pictures taped to the mirror in the background and the imitation of the pose in the far-left picture, and the outfit imitation of the picture on the right. Disturbing, no? But being Barbie is literally anatomically impossible. When the measurements from a Barbie doll are compared to that of the average US woman (who is five feet, four inches tall and 166 pounds), the results are shocking. Barbie’s head would be larger than her waist, she would be 5 feet, 6 inches tall and 110 pounds and she would not be able to lift anything (probably not even her own hand). Not to mention that there would not be nearly enough room to fit all of her organs. Why would anyone strive to look like that? The only way that one would be able to possibly get near that image at all is through an unhealthy approach (developing an eating disorder for example). In the rightmost picture taped to the mirror, the woman featured happens to be someone who went above and beyond to become a real-life Barbie, essentially. One can only imagine what lengths that women went to, to achieve such a dramatic look.
     In the song “Pretty Hurts” by Beyoncé, Knowles exposes the media and society for what they are doing to girls. Ultimately rebutting what Fey said in Bossypants, Knowles is openly making a stance and exposing how the media and society are imposing an unrealistic beauty standard onto young girls and women alike. In the first verse she sings about how the mother figure pretty much tells the daughter that smartness means nothing when you are pretty, just maintaining that image is all that matters. By including this in her song, Knowles is bringing to light the fact that this beauty standard is not just a one generation issue, but it encompasses past, present, and even future generations. The second verse of the song exposes how the media solidifies the standards that women are expected to follow: “Blonder hair, flat chest/TV says, ‘bigger is better’/South Beach, sugar free/Vogue says, ‘thinner is better’.” Everywhere you look there is a billboard, or a magazine, or something that advertises the unrealistic beauty standard. In a world that revolves around mass media, it is physically impossible to escape the repetition; thus engraining the notion into our heads that a woman must achieve a specific look to be seen as “physically attractive” to potential partners. As Knowles says (and repeats) in her song, ‘perfection is the disease of a nation.’ The song attacks the beauty standard, and it is almost as if this is Knowles’ way of telling girls that you are perfect in your own sense, that you do not have to adhere to the extreme ideals of a male-dominated society. This message of the song is what led me to add the overlay of crumpled paper onto the photo, symbolizing that we should discard whatever we have in our heads as a “perfect body” and embrace ourselves as we are.



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1 comment:

Unknown said...

One of the visual elements I found interesting about this photo is the hidden identity of the little girl, who is supposed to be the main subject . Her image which should be reflected in the mirror is covered over with images of the plastic barbie look-a-like woman she is trying to imitate. The fact that she has to stand on a stool to even be able to see herself further emphasizes how young this girl is and her dramatic attempt to want to look older and physically attractive. This further demonstrates the message that our culture sends to females from such a young age; that it is of upmost importance to look aesthetically pleasing.