Tuesday, October 22, 2019

Toy and Activity Preferences


From: Umi
From a very young age, boys and girls are taught to be different in their own ways. For example, boys are taught to be more aggressive and fight for things they want. On the other hand, girls are meant to stay in the corner, not fight back, and take all the pain with more emotion and less action. Another difference between boys and girls is the type of toys they play with. Boys play with action figures, cars and trucks while girls play with teddy bears, barbie dolls, and play house with kitchen wears.
            As read in one of my readings called “The two cultures of childhood,” “children have learned to avoid being seen playing with toys associated with the other gender.” (Rudman 2015). I chose this subtitle because it portrays how two different gender cultures separate us from a very young age. My 4 years old nephew, Affan, loves to play with cars, trucks and all the toys that are specified just for boys. He absolutely hates seeing toys that are associated with girls. In this picture, I gave him a teddy bear but his instant reaction was “Put it back, I don't want it” while making a sad expression.
The color pink on the teddy bear identifies the bubbliness it has which is mostly associated with girl culture. I’ve taken the picture from a centered angle with the focus on my nephew touching the teddy bear’s nose because it shows his aggression toward the teddy bear as he holds its nose to throw it away. He was taught to be more manly even though he is only 4 years old; he is strictly not allowed to play with barbie dolls, or even just a simple teddy bear.
Toys on the couch, such as police cars and a tow truck, are examples of how most of his toys are associated with boy culture. The background of this picture has dirty couch stains with the cover falling off, which symbolize the messiness a young boy can make. But when it comes to girls, they are more clean and keeps their toys in place. Affan looks down at the teddy bear with hatred in his eyes that his school friends, surroundings, and the media taught him to show toward objects that are associated with girls.
One of the biggest impacts of differences in gender roles comes from the media. For example, video games are associated with boys and playing with baby dolls and taking care of them is associated with girls. If we could step back and educate our kids to think differently about the other gender oriented toys, we could prevent the stigma that are associated with gender roles.

Work Cited
Rudman, Laurie A., et al. "The Two Cultures of Childhood." The Social Psychology of
Gender: How Power and Intimacy Shape Gender Relations. The Guilford Press,
2015, 59-63.
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3 comments:

Anonymous said...

You did a good job at explain the creative techniques of background, framing space and the similarity/differences. I would like to add a little more to it. As for the colors I like how the tones are dark and grey tones. This shows darkness and emotionless as what boys do. I like how he's focused and isn't showing fearless. As what boys tend do.

Jamie said...

The creative techniques in this photo are amazing, I liked the way you used symbolism, background, and gaze, to emphasize the gender roles we learn at a young age. When I first look at your photo the message is clear and the way you displayed it was great. I liked the way you used the backgrounds messiness as a symbol of how boys are messier than girls because their play is more destructive and aggressive, while girls is more contained and nicer. I also liked the way you displayed your nephew’s aggression through the way he was looking at the bear and the way he was holding the bear by the nose. However, there are some creative techniques you can edit to emphasize your message. If the camera angle was taken at a lower perspective, it can make your nephew look stronger and more aggressive because the audience would see him as being above the doll and overpowering it. Another technique that can be edited is framing/space, if you were to get closer making your nephew take up majority of the photo it will make him seem more powerful and masculine because he is the primary focus on the photo. Your use of the techniques are original and thought provoking and displayed the overall message well. I do wish the photo was clearer, so the toys in the back are easier to identify. However, your photo was amazing, and I also hope that one day we can all be educated and eliminate gender roles.

Anonymous said...

Hi Umi!
I like your photo of having a young boy play with an item that young girls typically would play with. It shows how young kids should expand outside the bubble of what the society has created for young girls and boys. I agree with your centered angle; however you could have also had the camera positioned down on the young boy to show how society would look down on that behavior. The background mess is a good way of differentiating boys to girls because it shows the gender norms of boys being messier compared to girls being clean and organized. Another technique you could have used is gaze. The child’s direct focus is at the bear which is showing the relationship between the child and the toy which could show a form of him being scared, rather than him looking straight into the camera showing him being brave and facing society norms. I like how you incorporated the color of the bear into your writing. Pink is typically a feminine color according to society. The bear has a pink ribbon around its neck showing how the bear is girly and dainty. Boys normally would play with a toy that has lighter colors such as pink and yellow because those light colors are associated with girl items to show them being fragile and dainty, whereas dark colors such as blue, black, and green are associated with boys because it shows manliness. This photo is a great example of how boys and girls should expand outside of the gender norms that society has created for them.

From: Hayley