
from: Kirstin
In this picture you’ll see two young girls. If you look closely you might notice that the girl in front, Jessica, has something different about her. She was born with a disfigured arm, yet this has never stopped her from being like every other girl. When I asked her to be in this picture, she immediately ran upstairs to change. She wanted to wear pink, as well as cover up her arm. I placed Jessica in front of her sister to show how she constantly works to be the one who is seen. If Jessica is around, you know it. I also asked the two sisters to pose for my picture. Jessica instantly did her “sexy” pose as she calls it, while her sister simply sat back and smiled. This picture was taken in the girls play room which was filled from floor to ceiling with Barbies, stuffed animals, and baby dolls. Jessica’s toys included the scantly clothed Barbies because they are “the pretty toys” and her sister more stuffed animals because the dolls had “too much makeup”. While both girls are amazing and sweet, Jessica has always known that she will have to try so much harder to fit in to the norm of society. No one ever had to tell her, she just knew. Her dream is to finish all the surgeries that she has had and still has yet to go so that she can look more like her “pretty toys”.
1 comment:
It amazes me how young people are so influenced by the littlest things. Wearing pink if you think about it is really a small thing, but when knowing that by wearing pink you further the male vs. female identity crisis, it becomes more complex. It is even more amazing not only did she know what a sexy pose is, she had one for the camera... Did i miss something? Is it not weird for anyone else that girls this age have sexy poses? The last time i checked that goes against the very fabric of being a child, I think its sad that the age of innocence becomes lesser and lesser of a number. But many kudos to the young girl for being young and knowing that it is good to overcome obstacles, its really awesome she is able to stay strong.
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